Conditioned to “know” that love is given through victimization.
Perfection mitigates shame.
Good enough will stop the pain.
Unlearning that kind of false love- with no compensation.
No return of innocence.
No decline in hyper-vigilance.
Redefining my experiences to formulate a healthy interpretation.
Love is…. given to other people despite…
Love is…. hard work, attunement, a delight.
Conditioned to “know” that love is reflected through a relation.
Model your desire in the lives of others.
Create space for love to flow to all our brothers.